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Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

Slow Burn: Wait and See

Pastor DawnCheré Wilkerson

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

Hebrews 11:13 MSG

Each one of these people of faith died not yet having in hand what was promised, but still believing. How did they do it? They saw it way off in the distance, waved their greeting, and accepted the fact that they were transients in this world.

Additional Scripture References: John 14:2–3, Revelation 21:1–5 MSG, Matthew 6:19–21, 1 Peter 1:4, Psalm 27:14, Lamentations 3:25, Isaiah 40:31, Joshua 1:9, Exodus 3:4, Matthew 6:9, Esther 4:14, Romans 8:26

Main Idea

As followers of Jesus, we live in the tension between longing for what’s ahead and wrestling with what’s right in front of us. The people of faith in Hebrews 11 didn’t see the promise fulfilled in their lifetime, yet they held on with unwavering belief. They weren’t just waiting for a breakthrough, they were living with eternity in view.

When we think about a place with no sorrow, pain, or tears, it can feel out of reach. But that’s the inheritance promised to those who believe in Jesus. Heaven isn’t just a concept, it’s a real destination and a lasting hope.

The promise of eternity doesn’t remove us from the slow burn, it redefines it. It gives weight to our waiting and reminds us that God sees our faithfulness. In the tension of now and not yet, Heaven anchors our soul.

“The Lord’s people have always been a waiting people.” - Charles Spurgeon

1. The Promise of Eternity

Through faith in Jesus and His resurrection, we’re promised eternal life with God in Heaven. Though we all face pain in the slow burn of life, our relationship with Jesus offers us an unshakable hope. Heaven isn’t something we earn, it’s a gift. We aren’t promised ease, but we are promised eternity with the One who wipes away every tear.

The world offers temporary fulfillment, but we were created for something more. Our hearts were made for God, and only He can satisfy the deep longing within us. One day, our true home and inheritance will be found in Him, in Heaven.

Heaven is not a someday dream, it’s a promised destination.
What you’re walking through is temporary; what’s waiting for you is eternal.
Our longing for Heaven is proof that we were made for more than this world.

“We are designed to be addicted to God” - Dr. Caroline Leaf

Do you ever find yourself investing more in temporary things than eternal ones? What helps you shift that?

2. The Power of Faith

Have you ever seen a wave begin in a stadium? One person rises, then another, until it moves through the entire crowd. In the same way, the lives of Abraham, Sarah, Rahab, and others created a ripple effect of faith that still impacts us today.

Their obedience sparked momentum, and their belief became a legacy. You may not always see the impact of your faith, but every prayer, act of surrender, and choice to trust God when it’s hard is building something that lasts. Your worship releases a fragrance. Your obedience continues the wave. And your faith is laying a foundation others will one day stand on.

Your faith isn’t just personal, it’s generational.
Legacy is built in the small, unseen moments of faith.
Your surrender today can create a wave for tomorrow.

“Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.” - Corrie Ten Boom

What’s one small act of faith or obedience you’ve taken that ended up having a bigger impact than you expected?

Summary

Jesus doesn’t just offer comfort in the wait, He gives us direction. As the ultimate investment advisor, He tells us exactly where to store our treasure: in Heaven. What we treasure will always impact those around us. Our daily decisions, how we wait, worship, and obey, are shaping eternity not only for ourselves but for others. Let your faith be an eternal investment. One that outlives you and points others to the only foundation worth building on, Jesus. 

Call To Action

Let this week shift your perspective. Instead of asking, "When will it happen?" try asking, "Who am I becoming as I wait?" Live this week with Heaven in mind. Let your waiting be a witness. Let it create space for others to see Jesus more clearly.

  • Reflect: What area of your life feels slow, stuck, or hidden? Ask God to reveal what He’s refining in you through it.
  • Respond: Reach out to someone whose faith has impacted you OR encourage someone currently walking through a waiting season.
  • Reframe: Begin each day with the question, Am I living for now, or am I living for what lasts? Let that question guide your decisions, responses, and pace.

Prayer Prompts

Prayer for Strength in the Wait:

Lord, give me the courage to stay steady in the slow burn. When I don’t understand the timing or the outcome, help me remember, You are near. Strengthen my heart to trust You in the here and now.

“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” Psalm 27:14

Prayer of Trust and Surrender:

God I surrender what I don’t understand, whether it’s yes, no, or wait, I choose to trust that You are good, You are present, and You are working even in the silence.

“The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.” Lamentations 3:25

Prayer for Perspective in the Process:

God, open my eyes to what You're doing in the meantime. Help me not rush past what You’re trying to form in me. I don’t want to waste this season. I want to walk with You through it.

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” James 1:2-3

Prayer for Hope in Disappointment:

God, I’ve faced some letdowns that hurt more than I expected. But even when life doesn’t go the way I hoped, help me believe that You are still good, and You still have more ahead.

“Let us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for He who promised is faithful.” Hebrews 10:23

Announcements

Care Request Form

If someone in your Crew needs care, we want to come alongside you. Our Care Response Team is designed to equip you to walk with people in different seasons of their life.

Our team is committed to celebrating life’s best moments with you and offering support through its hardest ones.

We would love to come around you for the following life events:

  • Celebratory Circumstances
  • Medical Needs
  • Loss
  • Disaster
  • Family/Marriage Needs
  • Mental Support
  • Financial Need

Please submit a request at  vouschurch.com/requestcare

Slow Burn

In Pastor DawnCheré Wilkerson’s newly released book, Slow Burn, you are invited to see waiting not as punishment, but as a sacred process of transformation. Whether you're longing for healing, breakthrough, or change, this season is an invitation to draw closer to a faithful God. With honesty and hope, this book offers strength for your soul, helping you live fully right where you are, confident that even in the slow burn of faith, God is powerfully at work.

To order Slow Burn, please click here

The Road to VOUSCon

Join us on the road to VOUSCon as we embark on a 40-day relay run through the state of Florida. From Jacksonville to Miami, runners from every region are invited to participate in carrying the good news. Our finish line? VOUSCon 2025. Led by a core VOUS team, we’ll link arms with partner churches along the way, spotlighting the body of Christ and championing the local church through weekly outreach initiatives.

Starting Line: Sunday, May 11
Finish Line: Thursday, June 19

Learn More

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City

10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS DD

10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online

10AM / 12:00 PM / 5PM Español


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

Crew Leader

Introduction (2 minutes)

Use the Zoom chat feature to keep everyone connected. As people join in, ask for their first and last name, email address, and where they are tuning in from. Save the chat as an attendance record.

Reflect

Ask Crew members to share their favorite points from the talk. What phrase or moment did they relate to the most?

Icebreaker: Reflection or Conversation Starter or Virtual Icebreaker (5 minutes)

For your icebreaker, choose from the options below. Have Crew members unmute themselves to share.

Conversation Starters (Choose One)
  • What's something you did this week that you feel proud of?
  • What did you eat for breakfast?
  • Name the best book you’ve ever read.
  • What’s your morning routine?
  • What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given?
  • If your life was a story, what would the title be?
Virtual Icebreakers (5 minutes)

Preaching Game - Choose random items and allow individuals to find ways to encourage others using that item. (Pick 2-3 volunteers)

Show-and-Tell - Pick an object in your home that has significance for you, something with a funny story behind it, anything unique, or something you've used to simply pass the time.

Crew Discussion

What Did You Expect?

Pastor Luke Barry

Continuing the Conversation
VOUSCon 2023: Reflect

VOUSCon was nothing short of a miracle! We're still praising God for all He did. Reflection builds gratitude. Spend the first few minutes of Crew sharing a testimony or reflection from VOUSCon 2023.

Continuing the Conversation
Last Crew's Call to Action

God calls for us to forgive while maintaining boundaries necessary to steward and nurture our souls. This week, lean in to the wisdom of Solomon and study the book of Proverbs to help you develop tools for cultivating Godly relationships while asking God for the courage to forgive. Don’t forget to check out additional resources at https://www.vouschurch.com/care.

Scripture

Ephesians 3:20-21 NKJV

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Additional Scripture References: John 11:32; Job 13:15; John 11:5; Matthew 14:31

Main Idea

Life often doesn't meet our expectations, leading to frustration and disappointment. We may hope for one outcome, only to be met with something entirely different, creating a gap between what we expected and what we experienced. This gap can lead us to question God, our faith, and our hope. But through stories like that of Lazarus and Job, we learn that God isn’t in the business of just meeting expectations, He’s in the business of exceeding them.

God’s power to perform exceeds our ability to ask

1. Hope and Expectation

Faith grows through hope and trusting God’s timing. Positive expectations can fuel faith, while unmet expectations can lead to disappointment. Often, we expect something specific from God but find ourselves limiting Him to only a particular outcome. When we don’t see Him come through just as we expected, we can find ourselves frustrated and disappointed — where was God? The truth is, God is always at work. We may not always see Him moving, or understand His plan, but He has something greater in mind.

Disappointment can tempt us to give up on expectations, but it’s an opportunity to strengthen our faith
God’s plans always exceed our expectations
Don't allow your expectations of what God was “supposed” to do get in the way of what He wants to do

If God always met your expectations, how could He ever exceed them?

What areas of your life are you waiting for God to show up? How can you operate from faith in the present as you hope for the future?

2. Endurance and Enjoyment

Job’s story is a powerful example of enduring pain and disappointment without losing faith. Even in his suffering, Job declared, “Though He slay me, yet will I hope in Him.” Despite the immense loss, he continued to trust God, showing us that our hope can remain, even in the midst of struggle. Endurance is the ability to trust that God is working, even when we can’t see it.

Endurance strengthens our faith through trials
God hasn’t called us to merely endure life, He’s called us to enjoy it
Enjoying life is appreciating the little, it’s not a pain-free life, but a grateful one

We can say: “God, I don’t understand everything but I trust you in everything”

How has a difficult season strengthened your appreciation for God’s blessings?

Summary

Possibly the greatest source of frustration in life is unmet expectations. The difference between what we expected versus what we experienced often leads us to stop expecting. But there’s an invitation of faith amidst the frustration. Don’t lower your expectations; lift your faith. Give God something to exceed. God can do it, the question is: can you believe it?

Call To Action

Identify areas where you may be limiting God by expecting a specific outcome. Practice finding gratitude by celebrating the little things.

Announcements

Care Request Form

If someone in your Crew needs care, we want to come alongside you. Our Care Response Team is designed to equip you to walk with people in different seasons of their life.

Our team is committed to celebrating life’s best moments with you and offering support through its hardest ones.

We would love to come around you for the following life events:

  • Celebratory Circumstances
  • Medical Needs
  • Loss
  • Disaster
  • Family/Marriage Needs
  • Mental Support
  • Financial Need

Please submit a request at  vouschurch.com/requestcare

Slow Burn

In Pastor DawnCheré Wilkerson’s newly released book, Slow Burn, you are invited to see waiting not as punishment, but as a sacred process of transformation. Whether you're longing for healing, breakthrough, or change, this season is an invitation to draw closer to a faithful God. With honesty and hope, this book offers strength for your soul, helping you live fully right where you are, confident that even in the slow burn of faith, God is powerfully at work.

To order Slow Burn, please click here

The Road to VOUSCon

Join us on the road to VOUSCon as we embark on a 40-day relay run through the state of Florida. From Jacksonville to Miami, runners from every region are invited to participate in carrying the good news. Our finish line? VOUSCon 2025. Led by a core VOUS team, we’ll link arms with partner churches along the way, spotlighting the body of Christ and championing the local church through weekly outreach initiatives.

Starting Line: Sunday, May 11
Finish Line: Thursday, June 19

Learn More

Sundays at VOUS

VOUS SoMi

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS City

10:30AM / 12:30PM / 6PM

VOUS Miami Gardens

8:45AM / 10:30AM / 12:30PM

VOUS DD

10:30AM / 12:30PM

Church Online

10AM / 12:00 PM / 5PM Español


Growth Track

After every service or join online at vouschurch.com/growthtrack

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